MY PHILOSOPHY
As adults, the extent to which we feel a sense of well-being, confidence, security, hope and direction is strongly influenced by the course of our childhood – and how successfully we were able to negotiate the emotional challenges of different ages and stages. In short, if the adult you become is the "house," I believe your childhood is its foundation.
That is why I feel that the fears of early childhood, the anxieties of the elementary years and the turmoil of adolescence must be taken seriously, addressed when they interfere with the child's functioning – and treated when appropriate.
In addition to experiencing many of the challenges we faced growing up, children now are often exposed to new situations and behaviors they cannot make sense of on their own, or even with your help and guidance. In fact, today's high levels of anxiety, uncertainty and restlessness can present problems for all ages.
I believe we must, for the sake of our children, invest deeply in understanding and not just latch onto clichés or trendy ideas. In my practice, getting to know your child in detail always comes first. Only with that understanding can I offer concrete advice on a positive direction forward.
Other thoughts:
- I strive to be a family adviser in the true sense, providing advice and insight as both a parent and psychotherapist.
- When appropriate, psychotherapy can be result in valuable, lifelong change.
- I limit the number of patients I see so I can be highly responsive, provide you with the time you need, and focus more clearly on the needs of your child.
- My process and approach are well defined, but not rigid. If things are going well, we take a break. If life presents a new challenge down the road, we resume our dialogue.
- My advice will be clear, direct and detailed – and will include all the ways you might consider approaching the issue, including other resources.
- Medication can be a great blessing when it is necessary and properly administered, but it is rarely, if ever, a complete solution.
